La carte du menu : Menu Card

As life goes on,

We have to understand.

We're not the same,

We may have similar personalities and qualities,

But we're not the same.

That is how it's meant to be. 

Use what life has offered you.

Use it well,

And don't look back. 

I want you to picture this. 

A woman buys a Lottery ticket. She has only bought two tickets her entire life. After buying the second ticket, she finds out that she has won a million dollars. She's absolutely thrilled.

And then there's another woman who has been buying Lottery tickets for five years straight and has not won a single dollar. She's disappointed. A part of her wants to stop buying the tickets whereas, the other part of her wants to keep trying hoping to win a big amount of money. 

Now, you can clearly see the differences in their life paths. One person achieves things quite easily whilst the other has to keep trying to achieve a similar goal. This is what I call a "Menu Card". 

Don't get confused, I'll explain it clearly. 

I believe all of us have a Menu Card. Now this Menu Card isn't what is offered to you at a restaurant, because usually, a typical Menu Card gives you a choice. A choice to satisfy your needs and wants. It's quite simple and easy, it happens in the present and you'll never be forced to eat or drink something you do not like. 

However, the Menu Card in my term differs a lot. How? 

This card contains everything that is supposed to happen in your life. It contains every little detail about you. Whether your hair is black, blonde, brown, etc..... It contains all. This Menu card doesn't give you the opportunity to choose because everything has already been planned and set for you. It's not simple, or easy and you'll be forced to go through difficulties. Everything that has happened in your life has worked according to your Menu Card. 

Going back to the earlier example of the two women. The woman who won the lottery was meant to win it because it was on her Menu Card. You'll think of it as luck but I don't believe it as such. Things happen because they are meant to happen in your life and you can never stop that from happening. Never. You can't fight against it. Because if it's meant to happen to you, it'll occur. Maybe not soon but somehow, through a choice you make, it will happen. 

Another clear example I can use is of dancers. So many individuals became famous TikTok dancers recently. We can all agree with the fact that not all of them are professional dancers. And quite easily they were able to become famous. 

Let's talk about a professional dancer who's been working hard to become famous but is finding it difficult to make it into that position. I know a lot of us find it ridiculous and unfair for them to reach such heights when there are dancers all around the world working so hard to get where they want to be.

 

Let me stop you right there. It's pointless for you to keep thinking in that manner. Absolutely pointless and a waste of time. Them becoming famous through Tiktok was meant to happen. The professional dancer who I mentioned earlier will have to work harder, she or he will have to face difficulties in order to get where they want to be. Because that is how it was written into their Menu Card. It was meant to work out in that manner.

Your path will be different from others. It is written into your life and not anyone else's. You may not like it, you may compare it with other lives but it's yours and you have to accept it. The sooner you accept it, the easier it is for you to live and become content with what you have right now. Because it is common knowledge that we as humans will always look into the things we don't have. It's always "Why don't I have this? Life is so unfair. etc. etc. etc" 

Don't fight the plan that's been set for you since the day you were born. I know it's not an easy task to do. To be happy with what you have right now. But it's a waste of time, isn't it? So try this out. Every time you feel like you need more and you don't like how your life is going on right now, ask yourself what you can do to get yourself to the place you want to be. Because if it's something written into your Menu card, without a doubt you're going to get there, and if it isn't, another path will arise. 

From what I've noticed. If you have a strong desire to achieve something, it is an indication that it was meant for you. It is God's way of saying "Go get it. This is what you were meant to do"

Enjoy every moment you receive because its' precious and you don't know when you gotta go. Death loves visiting us. Can't you see the pleasure it's gained for more than a year? It could grab you too. 

So live. Live for you. And enjoy every second of it.

I hope everyone's staying safe and healthy. Sending lots of love and hugs to all.

- Love BB